Dear Diva,

 My boyfriend and I have hit a point in our relationship where our sex together has become boring.  We’ve tried all the toys and they just are not helping.  Any ideas?

 Desperate in Detroit

 Girlfriend,

 Sex toys are not the only way to add a little zest to your sex life.  Sometimes you have to get a little creative and mix things up in order to recapture the sizzle that was once there.  It can be as simple as changing basic things, such as clothing, lighting, or your environment.  Consider, for example, your hair.  Yes, your hair!  Have you ever thought about a sexy wig to bring out the inner porn star in you?  Let me share with you my experience in this area.   

 We all know how expensive the upkeep can be on our hairstyles so the Diva decided to have a little fun experimenting with different looks. How did she do it you might ask? Why, wigs!!! Yes, wigs…they’re not just for Lil’ Kim! The Diva purchased several wigs lately and has been having a ball. Wigs are great not just for those lunchtime indiscretions, but for spicing up the bedroom (or living room, kitchen, you get the idea). The Diva found a good, inexpensive line called Paula Young (www.paulayoung.com). It’s a great place to start.

 There are also many wig lines from celebrities like Racquel Welch – who is probably the best known wig maker. Her wigs are GORGEOUS but VERY expensive. I recommend her wigs for the serious wearer. As for the Diva, I like www.wigs.com for some fun Revlon wigs and Paula Young for the inexpensive play fashion but there are many more Internet sites out there. Do keep in mind that most wigs are not returnable (for obvious sanitary reasons) so choose wisely.

 Either way, wigs are a fun way to bring out a new, more adventurous you!!!

 -Eva “The Diva” Cumm

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